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To many Westerners, the statement “I love you” often stands for a long-term commitment.
That is one reason why many American programs broach the hard choices people make and situations that arise when one partner says “I love you” and the other isn’t ready to say it yet.
After the mothers have been spoken to the young man is told he is allowed to come to the lodge.
Usually he waits until everyone is sleeping and he makes a light and finds the girl he wants.
The concept of arranged marriage and having one partner for life does not bode well for SOME women. Most Indians in the US are either 1st or 2nd generation and have not fully assimilated into mainstream American culture in the same respect African American and Latino men have. The dating / inter-racial totem pole from the average White American woman's viewpoint: 1. Wearing the same clothes day after day gives is plain disgusting. Etiquette: Opening doors, dropping us home, waiting till we're dressed... And just so you know, you'd be foolish to expect a 'Please' or 'Thank You.'13. Venereal stares are forgivable according to Indian men. To add to our misery, most of them also recycle their underwear by wearing them inside out. The spitting and pissing syndrome: We've seen men stop their cars in the middle of rush hour traffic, open their fly, pull out their appendage and piss on the road in full public view. Sex: Coming from the land of Kama Sutra, we are ashamed to admit that Indian men know nothing about the female body, let alone are aware of what to do in bed. Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Sanjit Singh: author of Are You Indian? There is also the case where some Indian guys will date American women, or non-Indians, and over time they realize that they really do want to marry someone from their own background. _____ The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Sanjit Singh The entire interview transcript is at: Sanjit Singh Interview – Are You Indian?
A Humorous Guide to Growing up Indian in America: That is a really good point with respect to the culture. Then they break up with them, date someone else and marry an Indian woman. Get to know what their expectations and values are. His mom might be putting a lot of pressure on him to marry an Indian girl and you’re non-Indian. Listen to the entire interview on: Intersections Match Talk Radio – Jasbina’s Lifestyle Show Listen to the entire interview on Blog Talk Radio: Conversation with Author, Sanjit Singh Listen to the entire interview on i Tunes _____ The uniqueness of Intersections Match comes from the life experiences of its Founder, Jasbina Ahluwalia.
Yes, there are several clichés you get to hear about Indian men, and though most of them are true, you can never quite understand them fully.