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Below, the mother of three shares with us what she learned from two divorces by the time she was 35.Like every single other married person out there, I never even considered I’d be divorced, let alone a single mom, at some point in my life. I was going to marry, have my two kids, watch them grow, stand arm-in-arm with their father as they walked down the stairs for prom, graduation, leaving for college, and then, when the they left the nest, we’d grow old together, comfortable in our little regimen of gardening, taking trips and bouncing our grandchildren on our knees. Soon, about a decade into the relationship, when I became a stay-at-home mom after the birth of our first daughter, things started getting less-than great.That some point for me, was right at the beginning. If you tell them at the start and they dont accept than its good you didnt invest your time. I actually told every guy at the beginning, hey im pregnant. Not gross :) Although getting pregnant while single isn't ideal, I think it definitely has a benefit over getting pregnant either unplanned/accidentally or with the assumption/hopes that the guy would stick around, because then you KNOW from day 1 that you're on your own.That way, you don't waste any time pining after a guy who doesn't want to be there for you and/or the baby.
Having a child out of wedlock is pretty much the number one thing you can do to fuck up your life. Never, ever assume a divorced woman is some innocent blushing maid cruelly abused by some terrible man. What kind of insecurities plague a woman who thinks getting married to a drug addict is good idea?
And then, a month after our first anniversary, I discovered his affair -- his affair.